God Loves Me

 

 
“This will be the sign for you. You will find a baby wrapped snugly in cloth and lying in a manger.”  Luke 2:12
 

I remember very well that early rainy morning years ago, sitting in my kitchen nursing the grief I felt over not being all I wanted to be. I have found that many women have had the same experience. There seems to always be something more we should have done, something we should have said – or something we should NOT have said. 


There are things . . . we haven’t accomplished, but want to and longings that continue to remain un-fulfilled.  I have come to realize that when we get caught up in such negative thinking, it clouds our perception of who we really are in Jesus.
 
Because my Father loves me and wants me to stay on track with spiritual truth, He gave me a gift that day years ago – tucked in the folds of a baby blanket.     
 
My boys were young then.  Brandon was in his early teens and Lane had just entered kindergarten.  All of a sudden I remembered the blanket; the favorite baby blanket belonging to the boys came to mind.  Woman on a mission, I left my brooding spot and went digging in the closet between the sheets and towels until I found it.  There – soft, white, with pink and blue ribbons around the border, it lay – just begging to be held. 
 
I remember particularly noticing the ribbons, recalling that the gift had been given by one who did not know the baby’s gender.  And in that same moment, I was flooded with a sweet reality that the PINK RIBBON was for me!  Oh yes – years after the boys had discarded this precious wrapping, my Father who understands all about my needs – placed it before me.  God often gives me visual reminders of His love. And that day at precisely that moment, He gave me the blanket with the pink and blue ribbons.  It was just what I needed to remind me of His love and His security.   There in that tiny closet, I wrapped myself in the baby blanket and sensed God wrapping His love around me.
 
This story, perhaps a bit sappy, is couched in truth you need to hear - especially on those days when you’re feeling “less than.”  You can deal with those insecurities of feeling inadequate by embracing these simple but life changing truths. You can live out the reality that Jesus loves you and has a plan for your life, no matter what circumstances may indicate. He longs to empower you and get you back on track with spiritual-reality thinking.
 
TRUTH:  You are God’s daughter. If Jesus Christ lives in your heart, your Heavenly Father loves you in a way none other can. You will never discover complete fulfillment by looking inside yourself or within the earthly roles you are experiencing now. Children grow up and move away. Your roles change as seasons of life change.
 
APPLICATION:  During these few days before Christmas, take time to sit with God, reflecting upon His humble birth in Bethlehem. Consider how God’s Glory entered humanity – not in a sanitized setting, but in
a dirty, impure environment. Offer Him your heart – your heart that sometimes feels very dirty and impure. Give Him the gifts of praise and thankfulness for the way He loves you. Give him the "now" of your life, offering Him a renewed thankfulness and commitment to trust Him in this season of life. 
 
SCRIPTURE:  Create in me a pure heart, O God, and renew a steadfast spirit within me.  (Psalm 51:10)
 
PRAYER:  Father, just as You entered this world as a tiny baby boy and was wrapped snugly in those swaddling clothes Your love caresses me when I feel less than worthy as the woman You created. I’m amazed that You would choose to come down from glory and settle in a dirty feeding trough. I’m also amazed that You would choose to take up residence in my impure heart often filled with self-criticism and sometimes judgment of others. Regardless of my earthly failures and the many times I miss the mark of holiness, I AM worthy – all because of Jesus. As I continue to turn to You with love and adoration help me to catch fresh glimpses of the way You love me. This Christmas I give You a new and thankful ME. Amen.
                   



 
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JESUS IS ENOUGH

The Faith Walk is a series of ups and downs, highs and lows. Not until we are in the presence of Jesus, will all of our longings be satisfied. Until then, we experience disappointments that are a part of living life on earth.


Today I was hit with disappointment. It had to do with a secret longing I’d been carrying around for a while. Years ago I’d put myself in training, for this is not the only time disappointment has threatened to eclipse my joy. The training exercise that I got to practice once again today, is simply this; seize the moment of the heartache of disappointment, and immediately focus on Jesus.

“Jesus I need a word from You,”  became my immediate focus.


Jesus is the only one who can take the sting out of disappointing circumstances. Today He not only removed the sting; He captured my heart with a new longing – a longing far more satisfying than the one removed.


Before I even completed the thought of needing to hear from Him, He overwhelmed my soul with . . .
 
Let ME be enough.
 
The message was so quiet and so non-intrusive, that I almost missed it – but I didn’t!
 

That gentle welcoming Voice exploded inside of me causing an eruption of PURE JOY. Immediately my mind turned around as I delightfully called out to Him . . .
 
Jesus, You ARE enough.
 
The hours that followed have been filled with praise and adoration to The One worthy of my heart’s longings.  Here’s what I’ve discovered ...
 
Jesus is not the stepping stone to something greater in my life. . .
He IS my life!


Does your heart have unfulfilled longings? Are there secret hopes and dreams that you have held onto for a long time? There is ONE who IS the answer.
 
TRUTH: We will not escape disappointments in this life, but Jesus promises to be our fulfillment.
 
SCRIPTURE:  The LORD will always lead you, satisfy you in a parched land, and strengthen your bones.

You will be like a watered garden and like a spring whose waters never run dry.  (Isaiah 58:11 CSB)
 
APPLICATION:  Reserve some special moments with your Father to talk over your longings. Dig deeply into your heart, talking over your bruised emotions and broken dreams. Ask Him to help you move into the place of truly . . . letting Him be enough.
 
PRAYER: Dear Lord – YOU ARE ENOUGH. Help me to sink into that holy reality of knowing and walking in the truth of YOU being all I truly need. I want to honor You Jesus, more than I want the lesser longings of my life to be met. I know that You love me and long to satisfy me with Your presence. I know You long to strengthen my wobbly emotions and jagged mind. I trust You Lord, to lead me and satisfy those deepest yearnings of my soul. Fill me Jesus, with Your living water that never runs dry. Turn my gaze upon You as I pray in Your loving name, Amen.
 


 
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DESPERATE FOR JESUS

As Jesus approached Jericho, a blind beggar was sitting beside the road. When he heard the noise of a crowd going past, he asked what was happening. They told him that Jesus the Nazarene was going by. So he began shouting,
 
 “Jesus, Son of David, have mercy on me!”
 
“Be quiet!” the people in front yelled at him. But he only shouted louder,
 
 “Son of David, have mercy on me!”
 
When Jesus heard him, He stopped and ordered that the man be brought to Him. As the man came near, Jesus asked him,
 
 “What do you want me to do for you?”
 
“Lord,” he said, “I want to see!”
 
And Jesus said, “All right, receive your sight. Your faith has healed you.”
 
Instantly the man could see, and he followed Jesus, praising God. And all who saw it praised God too.     (Luke 18:35-43 NLT)
 
In this passage we see a blind beggar, overcome with an unstoppable and relentless plea for mercy. Day after day he dragged his tired body and positioned it where he could best be seen and heard. Not able to work because of his blindness, he sat by the wayside begging.
 
This image tugs at my heart. A real person, loved by God, but often overlooked and dismissed by others. Can you imagine the low self-esteem heaped on top of being physically needy? He surely felt destitute of love of self and love from others.
 
And then . . . Jesus!
 
Surely he had heard about Him – heard about His miraculous healings. This man who had no hope of being rescued from his earthly plight, cries out to “Jesus, Son of David,” a title reserved for The Messiah. This destitute man believed. He had faith that Jesus was Who He said He was, and that He alone could heal him.
 
And Jesus did – what Jesus does. He heard the desperate plea from the shredded heart of this one bogged down in despair and hopelessness.
 
The blind beggar was just that; blind and begging. At the moment Jesus passed by he re-adjusted his focus from physical blindness – to being blind to everyone except Jesus. He closed his ears to others’ ridicule and negative comments – hearing only the compassionate words of Jesus.
 
Friend, you can do the very same thing right now. You can call out to Jesus, taking your shredded heart and despair to The One who knows and understands everything you are going through. And – He loves you through and through.
 
It may take a bit of “man-handling” your mind and emotions, but you can block out THE CIRCUMSTANCE that is weighing you down and re-set your focus on the only One who can really help you.
 
TRUTH: When you become desperate for Jesus, you will come to focus more on His love and grace and rely less on your own strength and ability.
 
APPLICATION: Write a personal prayer to Jesus in your journal or on a separate piece of paper to be shredded. Make it a heart to God’s Heart talk. Talk with Him about your inability to resolve what needs to be resolved. Talk with Him about your hurting heart and your need for His help in order to rise above the circumstance before you. Ask Him to do what only He can do.
 
SCRIPTURE: You’re blessed when you’re at the end of your rope. With less of you there is more of God and His rule. 
(Matthew 5:3 Message)

 

PRAYER: Dear Father, show me how to allow my crumpled heart to be settled in You. At every turn, it seems, there are people hurting and in desperate need of Your healing touch. I can’t heal them; You can. I can’t heal my ragged and weary heart; You can. Please, Lord Jesus, do what only You can do. In Your Loving Name I pray, Amen.
 

Balloon Pop

I’m embarrassed - for real, I am – even after all these years. However, I need to be straight-up with you. I want you to know I have experiential knowledge of what’s at stake when stress turns you into a victim, arms flailing and words spewing while those on the sidelines shriek back in horror or worse yet … laugh! Actually, I have many such memories, but one particular day springs to mind when I think over those many times I LOST IT!

Before reading my story, imagine you are a latex balloon (a red-hot one of course). Each stress event in your day deposits a puff of air into YOU– the balloon. Here’s my real-life scenario and how it all went down.

My thirteen year old son Brandon and I were finally on the homeward trek after a difficult (did I say DIFFICULT?) day at the middle school where I taught and he was in the seventh grade. Lots of opportunities throughout my teaching day for those stressors to puff into my balloon! Students bickering, parents calling, interrupted schedules and unexpected reports had greatly increased my stress load since we’d left home at 6:30AM.

We were running on a tight schedule, and had just enough time to get home, grab a bite to eat, and head out the door for the Little Theater production starring my son as lead character. Proud mama? Yes, but agitation was trumping the pride! There was no time (did I say NO TIME?) for a hiccup in our plans. Tension mounting, nerves fraying. . . let the countdown begin!

Brandon takes a note out of his book-bag. 5 “Mom, I need a pair of white socks for the play tonight” 4 “What? Why am I just now hearing this?” 3 “I didn’t mention it because I thought I had white socks!” 2 “You DO have white socks!” 1 “Mama, I thought I did but I don’t have any white socks!” 0!

Balloon pop! It’s over!!!

Calm mom. Usually even-tempered mom, explodes when the WHITE SOCK AGITATOR pushes her over the edge. I don’t need to describe the explosion. You know what it looks like, sounds like, and how unforgettable it is for all who experience it.

Take a moment to reminisce over your last balloon pop – if you can stand the painful embarrassment of it. Then give yourself some grace and allow God to do a bit of work in your heart and soul.

From one who is a daily seeker of Peace, Joy, and Fulfillment – I can tell you the first step, and the critical step, is a desperation for your heart to mesh with the Heart of God. For much of my earlier life, STRESS had a hold on me. I tried to prevent it, manage it, organize it, and pray it away. Not until I became desperate to know God, instead of being desperate to get rid of stress . . . did life begin to change.

I don’t understand it, but I know it’s true. For me, God used the overload of stress in my life to reveal His Glory. And what a blessing! I’m living proof that coming to the end of your rope can be a blessed event, but only when it drives you to God’s Heart!

So, if you’re wallowing in guilt over those times you’ve lost it, just know that Jesus will use those moments to teach you, mellow you, and allow you to have more compassion when you witness the same kind of explosion in others.

I LOVE HIM FOR THAT!

TRUTH:
The accumulation of common daily hassles can cause your “balloon to pop” but Jesus will use it to draw you back to His Side.

APPLICATION:
If you don’t have a designated journal to scribble out your thoughts and prayers, get one. Spend some time writing about your moments of stress, then talk with your Father about helping you to become more focused on Him and His peace that lives inside of you.

SCRIPTURE:
You’re blessed when you’re at the end of your rope. With less of you there is more of God and His rule. (Matthew 5:3 – The Message)

PRAYER:
Dear Father, I finally admit it. I’m desperate for You to bring peace into my life. I know my efforts can’t do it, and my love alone, is not enough. I honestly don’t understand how to deal with all of the stress that’s in my life, so I come to You – helpless and needy. You have promised to bless me when I turn to You. Here I am. I love You. In the powerfully strong Name of Jesus, Amen.

THIS & THAT

Early one morning during my time of Bible Study and talking with Jesus about my day ahead, I kept hearing the phrase . . . this and that.

As the moments passed, the phrase turned into . . . You do this and I’ll do that. 

I recognized this phrase-dropping as a direct message from the Father. He loves to speak to His children, and does so through His Word, through circumstances, through other people, and for me – often through “phrase-dropping.”

He appeared to be reminding me of His faithfulness to act when we move in obedience to what He instructs us to do. I began thinking of Biblical circumstances where this concept played out. Consider these examples:

John 6:1-15 – Jesus told His disciples to DO THIS. Bring the five loaves and 2 fish to Him, have the people sit down. And then He DID THAT. After the bread was distributed among them all they continued in obedience by gathering the leftover fragments so that nothing would be wasted. All marveled at the miracle that occurred that day.

You do this and I’ll do that.

John 5; 5 - 9  - Jesus told the invalid who had placed his hope in the healing waters of the pool to DO THIS. “Get up! Pick up your mat and walk.” (vs.8) And when he did, Jesus DID THAT. The man was cured because he followed in obedience.

You do this and I’ll do that.

John 11:1- 44 – In the account of Jesus bringing Lazarus back from the dead, He told those around his tomb to DO THIS. “Take away the stone.” (vs. 39)

And when they did (after hesitation, I would add) Jesus DID THAT. Again, because of obedience in following the command from The Lord, Jesus responded in another glorious way.

Scripture is full of these interchanges of obedience to Jesus and the revealing of His Glory. Can you think of others?

Later, after I had mentally revisited other encounters of You do did and I’ll do that . . . throughout God’s Word, He graciously reminded me of my most recent personal experience with this holy exchange.

The If you will do this, then I will do that principle . . . played out in the writing of the most recent Bible study; BLOOD CLOTS, Blockages to Experiencing the Resurrection Power of Christ.

If you’ve read the introduction in the study, you already know that God specifically gave me the exact instruction of the title and message. It was…

Write a book entitled BLOOD CLOTS and make it about those blockages in Believers’ lives that keep them from experiencing My power.

Friend, it took me a long time to complete my THIS. But now, God in His graciousness, is allowing me to see His THAT! The Study is being used to equip women to move about in their God-given power that is theirs through relationship with Jesus, and because of His Bloodshed on the Cross. Women are beginning to identify those “Clots” that block the flow of this power, keeping them earthbound instead of power-bound. Clots like worry, guilt, shame, pride, busyness of life, and etc. 

I’m convinced that God is doing HIS THAT because I did THE THIS He told me to do.

I hope you’ll take some moments to ponder this concept in scripture and in your personal walk with The Lord. May He reveal fresh insights about His glory that He longs to reveal when His children obey His commands.

You can never go wrong by choosing to OBEY JESUS!

If you love Me, you will keep my commands.

(John 14:15 HCSB)

Have You Considered Old Testament Sacrifices?

Do you think it’s important for Christians to study and understand the Old Testament sacrifices? If you’re like many believers, chances are you either dismiss thinking about the Israelites’ sacrificial offerings at all – or you dismiss their relevance to us living on this side of the Cross.

 But considering the sacrificial system before Jesus became the once-and–for-all sacrifice is extremely important to those who long to go deeper with God.

 Drawing from a personal analogy, I think of it this way. Reflecting on my parents’ propensities toward high cholesterol and blood pressure as they aged helps me to understand my own journey towards such. I enjoy and appreciate a healthy lifestyle because I continually make good diet and exercise choices, knowing I have the genetic tendency for those numbers to climb high.

 So, the same thing rings true in my spiritual journey. By considering the sacrifices that God required in His covenant with Israel, I become familiar with the “spiritual mechanics” of God accepting and cleansing His children through those sacrifices.

 Have YOU as a believer in Christ, given thought to those first sacrifices?

 Do you understand that the striking feature of many of those ancient ceremonies was the use of blood?

 Would you like to understand the link between the death of Jesus and all those sacrifices that happened before His death, burial, and resurrection?

 Would you like to thank Him more deeply for what He did for you on the cross?

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BLOOD CLOTS, Blockages to Experiencing the Resurrection Power of Christ

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BLOOD CLOTS

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BLOOD CLOTS - now that’s an unusual name for a book, right?

But actually, I’m totally fine with it because of the Originator of the title and content of this Six Week Study for women. For those of you who have yet to grab the newest, here’s a bit of sharing that explains the title, from the introductory pages . . .

The sun was bright and warm that afternoon as I sat outside working through my list of things to get done for the upcoming week. Right in the middle of sorting through appointments and calls to make, God spoke. I describe it as His “audible-inaudible” voice, and I had heard it before. Not articulated in words, but a message so strong and unlike any other voice, that I knew it to be His.

Let me be quick to say that God loves to speak to His children. It may be with a direct message shot straight to your inner ears, or it may come through another person. He often speaks through circumstances, and of course – He always speaks through His Word.

This time it was a command, and in that split second I knew with absolute certainty what it was.

Write a book entitled BLOOD CLOTS about the blockages in Believers’ lives preventing them from experiencing My resurrection power.

After years of writing, researching, and praying – this Bible Study for women has just been released. Study-groups are forming to talk about the Clots of Worry, Guilt, Busyness, along with other blockages that women may experience in their daily trying-to-keep-it-together lifestyles.

Do you long for His supernatural power? Is there something stirring in your heart, even now, that whispers . . . God has more for me than what I am currently experiencing?

Do you want, REALLY want, to be a woman who doesn’t lose it with her kids, who loves her friends well through difficult seasons, who relies on God through grief and sorrow, who handles stress at work without flipping out, who navigates cheerfully through the waves of laundry, dishes, messy children’s rooms, and shows grace to her enemies and lots of loving support to her friends? Do you, more than anything, want to take hold of everything God has for you, His child – through the power of the resurrection of His Son, Jesus?

Well Sister, I invite you to journey with me through this Study that is the product of my obedience to The Father. For the Believer in Jesus, God’s power is available for those darkest times of life, as well as for every mundane moment of drudgery we may soldier through on a daily basis.

If you are done with living in your own strength and seriously want God’s Spirit to come to life in you, power up with the Risen Jesus and He will make it happen!

BLOOD CLOTS. . . Blockages to Experiencing the Resurrection Power of Christ

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Delusion or Deliverance!

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This article was written by The Reverend Billy Graham in April of 2016.  An insightful and appropriate read for these days before our 2020 elections take place.  As you prayerfully read, may our Father reach those “difficult to reach” places in your mind and heart – those places where only HE can touch.  Cindi

 

We are apparently living in the time described by Paul: “In the last days perilous times will come: For men shall be lovers of themselves … lovers of pleasures rather than lovers of God” (2 Timothy 3:1-2, 4).

This modern age holds more glittering allurements than any other age in history. Yet we find responsible people trying to gloss over these evils. This is not a time to gloss over, rationalize and explain away, but it is a time to oppose evil, lest our society becomes totally corrupt.

The Bible plainly teaches that one of the characteristics of the end of this age is that people will develop a capacity for delusion rather than the truth.

Today, sin is explained away by psychological terminology. God is portrayed as a sentimental creature who never lets His wrath fall on anyone. Thousands of Americans are deluded by philosophies that are destroying the strength of the nation and threatening our security.

Surely we are living in the day of which the Apostle Paul warned when he wrote: “And with all unrighteous deception among those who perish, because they did not receive the love of the truth, that they might be saved. And for this reason God will send them strong delusion, that they should believe the lie, that they all may be condemned who did not believe the truth but had pleasure in unrighteousness” (2 Thessalonians 2:10-12).

What a mysterious and striking statement Paul makes, “For this reason God will send them strong delusion, that they should believe the lie.” And yet what a candid picture of modern man: deceived by the mouthings of demagogues, yet indifferent to the voice of God. Driven by some diabolical, compulsive force, we rush toward the precipice of global destruction.

The Bible indicates that because we have rejected the truth, we are victims of a gigantic delusion. Paul had said earlier to the Romans that the people of his day had “changed the truth of God into a lie, and worshiped and served the creature more than the Creator.”

And “For this reason God gave them up to vile passions” (Romans 1:25-26). Three times in the first chapter of Romans the Scripture says, “God gave them up” because of their sins.

Everywhere we look today, we see the propensity for delusion. We see it in our gullibility for false advertising. Madison Avenue has built a gigantic business on the principle that modern man has the capacity for deception.

We see this capacity for delusion in politics. Political platforms, like the platforms of trains, are for the sole purpose of getting a man aboard. When we witness the maneuvering, the use of power, the conniving and the policy of expediency in our political arena, it is no wonder someone has said, “We have the best politicians that money can buy.”

The Scripture teaches that the more sins we commit, the easier it becomes to sin. It lies in the nature of God’s moral government and in the moral constitution of man that sin indulged weakens the strength of resistance, and so invites and prepares the way for more frequent and violent assaults of temptation.

Thus, yielding to sin receives part of its punishment in the slavery to sin. All men and women must believe something; if not the truth, then the lie of the devil.

Paul says that the unbelievers in Thessalonica had their pleasure in evil. Thus, they became “wise” in doing evil and fell so deep in sin that they began to call evil good.

Where a person has deviated from the eternal rules of God and morality, there is darkness. And while in darkness, he begins to pass false judgments upon most things of vital import. You, too, can reach such a state in your sinfulness that you can no longer tell the difference between good and evil.

This passage indicates that God sends this delusion upon sinners. The Scriptures and experience suggest that there comes a point when God gives men and women up in their sins. He can do this by withdrawing His enlightening influence from their understanding.

It is never possible to understand the happenings in our times unless God gives us spiritual illumination. Because our sins have become so heinous in His sight, He withdraws this spiritual illumination and we stumble on in our blindness into the deeper darkness.

Even the church is in danger of being led astray and deluded by false teachers and pastors. Jeremiah cried out: “’Woe to the shepherds [pastors] who destroy and scatter the sheep of My pasture!’’ says the Lord” (Jeremiah 23:1). God warned the people of Jerusalem in that ancient day, “Do not listen to the words of the prophets who prophesy to you. They make you worthless; They speak a vision of their own heart, Not from the mouth of the Lord” (Jeremiah 23:16).

God warned that they say, “You shall have peace,” when there is no peace; that they say, “No evil shall come upon you” (Jeremiah 23:17) when destruction is about to fall.

God accused the prophets of that day of having perverted the words of the living God, and God warned, “I will bring an everlasting reproach upon you, and a perpetual shame, which shall not be forgotten” (Jeremiah 23:40).

The Scripture teaches that Satan sometimes fashions himself into an angel of light. When the devil approaches to tempt, he does not carry a warning sign saying, “I am the devil.” He comes in a thousand subtle forms, with delusions and lying wonders.

First he brings the delusion that sin will bring fullness to your life.

This was the first delusion that the devil ever brought to the human race. Though it is worn and threadbare, he is still repeating it today. To Adam and Eve he said, “For God knows that in the day you eat of it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil” (Genesis 3:5).

I have a friend who was one of the nation’s youngest golf “pros” at the age of 17. He had high ideals as a young man, but he fell prey to the same delusion when his pals insisted that he conform to their way of life. Because he wanted to fit in, he began to do the things the gang did until he became an alcoholic and a bum. He fell a victim to the age-old delusion that the way to a full life is to break God’s law. Sin pays—but it pays off in remorse, regret and failure.

Many of you think that real fun is found in conforming to this world, living a life of unrestrained appetite and pleasure. Yet the Scriptures warn that “the way of the unfaithful is hard” (Proverbs 13:15).

I wish you could look over my shoulder and read some of the letters which I receive telling of broken hearts, broken homes and shattered futures. The writers believed a lie rather than the truth.

Second, Satan tries to get us to believe that the soul is of much less importance than the body. Jesus brushed this delusion aside when He asked, “What will it profit a man if he gains the whole world, and loses his own soul?” (Mark 8:36).

The Scripture says there is a time to be born and a time to die. The Scripture warns that life is like grass that withers or a flower that fades.

In other words, life is surprisingly short. Yet millions are living as though this were the only life that counted. They have completely lost sight of eternity. Would to God that we would learn to live each day with eternity’s values in view.

Nowhere has the biblical question, “How shall we escape if we neglect so great a salvation?” (Hebrews 2:3) ever been successfully answered, except in the Scriptures. The answer is: There is no escape from God. Yet thousands of people think that they can escape from the realities of time and eternity.

Men and women are trying to escape through imagination, pleasure, false security or self-sufficiency, but the Bible warns there is no such escape. However, there is good news for all of you who are seeking a way out. There is one way of escape. There is one way of deliverance.

Following the frightening words, “How shall we escape,” we are told about God’s way of escape. “But we see Jesus, who was made a little lower than the angels, for the suffering of death crowned with glory and honor, that He, by the grace of God, might taste death for everyone … and release those who through fear of death were all their lifetime subject to bondage” (Hebrews 2:9, 15). He is the way of escape that God provided.

The Bible declares, “And this is eternal life, that they may know You, the only true God, and Jesus Christ whom You have sent” (John 17:3). The Scripture teaches that He is the embodiment of all truth. Come to Him in simple, childlike faith, and He will be your way of escape. He brings you to Himself, to send you back into the world as His witness.

Finally, many are deceived by Satan into thinking that there is plenty of time to get right with God.

Amos the prophet said to the people of his day, “Prepare to meet your God” (Amos 4:12). But the people refused to prepare, and judgment came. I am certain that almost all those people planned to make their peace with God sometime.

We neglect our relationship with God because we are deluded into thinking that the Christian faith is just a cosmic fire insurance policy to save us from hell. It does more than that. It saves us from hell on earth.

The older we grow, the dimmer the faculty of hearing becomes. Just so does our capacity to hear the voice of God diminish with age.

You will never find it easier to accept Christ than at this moment. To delay one moment is to find it harder. “Now is the accepted time,” says the Bible. “Now is the day of salvation” (2 Corinthians 6:2).

It is a delusion to think that tomorrow will be better than today. Faith in tomorrow, rather than faith in Christ, is a delusion that will cause you to be finally and eternally lost. ©1960 BGEA

 

Scripture quotations are taken from The Holy Bible, New King James Version.

 

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Three Places To Turn When Your Heart Shuts Down

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Some things you’ll never get over, but you will get through.

If that thought does not resonate with you on a personal level, you indeed are numbered among the few. Life is tough and the circumstances that threaten to take us under can leave us feeling overwhelmed and unable to process. As God’s daughters we may go through those times of feeling utterly helpless, but we are never hopeless! For God Himself is living within us making it possible to triumphantly get through every unsettling season of life. Here are three realities where I place my trust when troubling circumstances threaten to take me under.

  1. Jesus understands my broken heart.

On the night before His crucifixion, Jesus cried out to The Father. My soul is crushed by sorrow, even to the point of death. (Mark 14:34 NLB) No one understands the depths of human suffering better than God. He never dismisses my pain, but calls me to run to Him when I can’t take it any more. In the total humanity of Jesus as He lived life on this earth, He gets it. Because He is also totally God, He alone can get me through

      2. God will guide me through His Spirit.

But the Counselor, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, will teach you all things and remind you of everything I have told you. (John 14:26 CSB)

Stress can fill your mind with confusion. How wonderful knowing that you have a Counselor who will speak to you, guiding you with promptings in your spirit. He will also remind you of previous victories when God saw you through tough times. Recognizing His presence living inside of me, quiets my troubled heart and reminds me of God’s constant companionship and guidance.

  1. God gives me prayer language through His Word.

When my mind becomes distracted and overrun by anxiety, I have discovered the safest and most “accurate” way to pray is to pray scripture. I can always confidently know that when I pray God’s Word back to Him, I am praying in accordance with His Will. Seeking direction for a decision I must make, often prompts me to personalize a prayer based on Psalm 32:8.

Lord, Your Word says that You will instruct me and teach me in the way I should go. You will counsel me with Your loving eye upon me. Thank You Lord, for I rest in this promise.

When those times of emotional gridlock shut you down and you can’t seem to pray or read your Bible, God will run to you! You are His child and He is your rescue!

I will never (under any circumstances) desert you (nor give you up nor leave you without support, nor will I in any degree leave you helpless), nor will I forsake or let you down or relax My hold on you (assuredly not)!   Hebrews 13:5 AMP

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Sacred Balance

You were never meant to handle everybody’s problems and take care of every situation that unfolds before you. It’s unhealthy to even try. So many women are juggling too many roles and finding insufficient time to do all the things they are trying to do. Packing each hour as full as you can, leaves you more stressed than ever before.

So, having said all of the above, is the problem that there is not enough time or that you are trying to do too much? Sacred Balance is living in a place where you learn to evaluate your time by God’s design and according to His plan. Consulting with Him is the only way to achieve balance in daily living

Many are finding more demands on their time and energy during these days of navigating through a pandemic. We simply must take the time to consult with our Father about our scheduling. Only He can instruct us how to balance our time during these trying days.

It may seem counterintuitive to add spending time with God to your already over-crowded schedule. But actually, it’s not! God will honor you by seeking Him first. He will speak to you through His Word and in your spirit as you rest in Him. You must realize this and accept it by faith on the front end of making the commitment to spend time with Him in worship, study, and intercession.

I do not take the invitation of Jeremiah 33:3 lightly. I’m training myself to continually seek the Lord, asking His opinion, and expecting Him to lead me through His Word.

Getting to know Jesus more deeply and pursuing a lifestyle of talking over the details of every day with Him gives you a new and different perspective on what’s truly important in life. The Holy Spirit will counsel you (that’s His role) as you seek answers from Him about your daily schedule during these difficult days.

Call to me and I will answer you and tell you great and unsearchable things you do not know.  Jeremiah 33:3

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Dealing With Corona Virus Uncertainty

If you find yourself in a quandary about the myriad of issues surrounding the Corona Virus, you certainly are not alone.

Do I go to church or is it best to worship online? Should I wear my mask every time I go into a public place? Should I refrain from eating in restaurants even though they seem to be taking proper precautions to block the spread of COVID-19? Will I be safe taking the vaccine? Should I just forget it all and go on as if nothing has changed.

So many questions! Who do you listen to when trying to evaluate your best course of action? Truly, there is not a one-size fits all solution. People are different and so are circumstances.

I have come to rely on scripture in a new way during these troubling times. Ultimately, only God knows the best course of action for any individual in any circumstance. I’m trying to stay informed as I’m seeking His guidance – which include listening to His promptings about which news to believe, along with which is the best choice of action for me. That’s still the best way to roll.

Now if any of you lacks wisdom, he should ask God – who gives to all generously and ungrudgingly – and it will be given to him.    (James 1:5 CSB)

When Jesus left those troubled disciples before His death on the cross, He knew they’d be confused and overwhelmed. He knew they needed guidance – MUCH GUIDANCE – in the days ahead.

I will ask the Father, and He will give you another Comforter (Counselor, Helper, Intercessor, Advocate, Strengthener, and Standby), that He may remain with you forever. (John 14:6 AMP)

That’s it! We need a counselor to help us make the best plan of action personally, for the Corona Virus. Did Jesus really mean He would help us know what to do in working through this crazy mess?

Yes indeed! If you have accepted Jesus into your heart as the Lord of your life, then the Holy Spirit has entered into a living relationship with you. He lives in you and is constantly with you. He IS your Counselor and will help you make each and every decision that is before you. I can’t tell you the best approach for YOU, but He can – and He will. Seeking His guidance and then following in obedience to those inner promptings delivered to you heart and mind, will keep you stable as we continue to walk through these uncertain days.

Trust in the Lord with all your heart and do not rely on your own understanding; think about Him in all your ways, and He will guide you on the right paths.   

(Proverbs 3:5-6 HCSB)

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He Loves to Help You

I remember taking my elderly grandmother to her favorite restaurant to eat. It was after a doctor’s appointment, and we arrived right at lunchtime. When I approached the parking lot, it was full and I prayed aloud, “Lord, give us a parking space right up front.” As I turned into the lot, a space right in front of the door became vacant. My grandmom and I laughed and talked about how the Holy Spirit opened that place just for us. To me, it was another awesome reminder of how God longs to be involved in our lives, helping us in practical ways. It would have been difficult for my grandmom to have walked very far – and He knew that.

You may not get a specific answer to the request you voice to Him, but many times you will. Other times you may sense His guidance as He impresses you in certain ways. Then you need to follow up in obedience. He may lead you to carry through with something or not do something. He may impress you to change your attitude about a certain matter or apologize to a friend. He may simply want you to thank Him for filling you with His peace and freeing you from worry. I can’t list all the ways He might speak to you, but I can assure you that He will.

As you acknowledge His presence, thank Him for desiring to be involved in your life. Then, know with confidence that your Helper will remain with you forever. That’s the promise of Jesus.

And I will ask the Father, and He will give you another Helper (Comforter, Advocate, Intercessor – Counselor, Strengthener, Standby), to be with you forever. 

- John 14:16 Amplified Bible

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Teaching Children to Love Jesus

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When I think about teaching our children how to love and trust Jesus, I’m reminded of an incident with my grandson several years ago.

As Durham’s mom dropped him off at school, he remarked about the name he saw written on her
hand. In answer to his inquiry, she told him it was the name of a friend who did not have a relationship with Jesus. She’d written it there to remind her to pray for this friend throughout the day. Later that afternoon when Durham hopped in the car
after school, she saw his little hand with his friend’s name written across it.
His words – along with his heart – matched hers. I want him to know Jesus.

In their family, this practice of looking to God and praying
throughout the day comes from a consistent practice of reading the Bible,
talking about the Bible, and practically following God’s instructions given
throughout His Word.

In the days of Jesus, the Jewish custom of Bible study
linked with prayer was very defined. Jewish boys were taught the greatest of
all Jewish commandments, the Shema, as soon as they could speak. It’s certainly
safe to assume that Joseph, Jesus’ earthly father, taught Him to pray this
passage from the scriptures.

Hear, O Israel: The LORD our God, the LORD is one. Love the LORD your God with all your heart
and with all your soul and with all your strength. These commandments that I
give you today are to be upon your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk
about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie
down and when you get up. Tie them as symbols on your hands and bind them on
your foreheads. Write them on the doorframes of your houses and on your gates
(Deut. 6:4-9).

See the practicality in those instructions?

When you read and discuss Bible passages with your children,
they’ll come to experience God’s supernatural power in their lives at home, at
school, as they play sports and interact with their friends. As you impress
God-Truths upon their hearts, and talk about them when you sit at home and when
you walk (and drive) along the road – they will develop a dynamic and practical
relationship with Him. As Bible reading becomes more than a casual glance at
God’s Word, you’ll be equipping them to live life by the principles laid out in
scripture.

Take a look at this simple approach to enjoying the scriptures with your children:

  1. Select a passage to read together. 

  2. Ask your child to tell you what it means to him (her).    

  3. The, discuss ways you both can practice sharing God’s love based on the scripture you explored.

The LORD delights in those who fear Him, who put their
hope in His unfailing love.

Psalm 147:11

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Law and Grace

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God used a recent personal experience to teach me in a deeper way the doctrine of Law and Grace. It lasted only moments, but the impact of it was seared into my heart.

After a great morning with the gals who’d gathered at our Myrtle Beach location to dig deeper into God’s Word, I was headed to find some lunch. Pulling off a side road I began merging my car onto busy HWY 50l traffic, entering the stream of other drivers barreling down the freeway.

It was then I was busted by the long arm of the law!

Noticing the flashing lights behind me I thought, Surely he doesn’t mean ME -  after all, I’m just driving like everybody else is. The siren was the clue that it was time to pull over.

As I nervously made my way to the shoulder of the road, I whispered my “caught off guard default prayer” . . .

Lord, teach me something in this.

Looking in my rear view mirror I watched the patrolman’s authoritative approach. He patted my FBC window sticker as he asked why I was in such a hurry.

I felt locked in the vice of the law. I WAS.

I felt convicted and guilty. I WAS.

I felt helpless to exonerate myself. I WAS.

It made not one sliver of difference to him that I’d been teaching the Bible all morning, that I’d never had a ticket, and that I was a church-going gal. I’D BROKEN THE LAW.

A few minutes later I drove a couple of blocks and pulled into a parking lot to settle my nerves and examine the ticket I’d been given. There it was; my offense spelled out, along with my fine and court date. I felt horrible about the ticket, but I felt worse about telling my husband who was back home praying over this women’s retreat!

With a deep breath, I laid it all out in one quick text . . . caught speeding, ticketed, and fined.

His response came back in seconds, and I realized my Father had answered my prayer to “teach me something in this”. Through my tears I read . . .

Don’t worry. I’ll take care of it. It’s ok.

That was it. No condemnation, no reprimand nor criticism.

In that moment, I caught a holy glimpse of the Authority of the Law and the Extravagance of Mercy.

Holy God, Forgiving Jesus, Loving Husband – That’s GRACE!

The law came along to multiply the trespass. But where sin multiplied, grace multiplied even more.                                    Romans 5:20 CSB

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Creating Godly Habits

As we discipline ourselves to praise God, memorize scripture, study the Bible, along with any other spiritual behaviors that we do consistently – we will create great habits. What you begin as a “habit with God’ can lead you deeper into your love relationship with your Lord. When you faithfully and consistently meet Him at that quiet place, worshiping Him with a heart full of love, that godly discipline will turn into a love gift, one you can hardly wait to give to Him.

As you enter into this time of daily commitment, it may feel awkward. For me, it took a while to learn exactly how to be quiet and still. Just keep at it. It will get easier, the distractions will lessen, and you’ll get more comfortable in “this place”. Remember, the Holy Spirit will help you in growing this love relationship too. Just relax and enjoy each day of the journey.

You may find it helpful to have a guideline to follow. The following list helped me establish an early morning routine. As time passed, I added some other things as well.

·      I pray Psalm 143:8 “Cause me to hear Your loving-kindness in the morning, for on You do I lean and in You do I trust. Cause me to know the way wherein I should walk, for I lift up my inner self to You.” (AMPC)

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·      Next, I spend time thanking Him. Often, I mentally go through the previous day, thanking Him for how He was involved in each event, conversation, errand, and so forth. I thank Him for saving me and for pursuing a love relationship with me.

·      I offer Him a repentant heart seeking forgiveness for specific sins and for missing the mark of holiness in certain thoughts and behaviors.

·      I welcome the present-day ministry of the Holy Spirit – asking Him to intervene in the specifics, whatever they are, in the day ahead.

There’s no perfect plan or magical formula for spending time with Him. For as the seasons have changed, so has my approach to being with Him.

Just make the effort to be with Him, drawing near with a spirit of eagerness. He’ll bless you in ways you simply can’t imagine!

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God Reveals As We Obey

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God spoke directly to me over an obedience matter this week. He instant-messaged me right in the middle of reading His Word. Yep, I just happened to be reading exactly what I needed to be reading at the time I needed this word of encouragement from Him.

Imagine that!

In the passage about Abram in Genesis 12, several principles were highlighted right before my eyes and transferred to my heart.

God called Abram to do something that required movement on Abram’s part.

Go from your country, your people and your father’s household to the land I will show you. (vs. 1)

Abram obeyed God’s instruction.

So Abram went, as the LORD had told him. (vs. 4)

Then, God revealed more of the plan.

The LORD appeared to Abram and said … (vs. 7)

Abram worshiped.

So he built an altar there to the LORD who had appeared to him.

 (vs. 7)

Do you see the principle at work here? It’s simple:

1.   God tells us to do something.

2.   We obey.

3.   God reveals more, once we obey.

4.   We worship.

What a model from scripture showing us how God lays out His plan for us, incrementally. He usually doesn’t allow us to see the future result which a simple & obedient act of faith – and then another, then another - will eventually produce. He only calls us to be obedient step by step. And as we obey each step, He reveals more of His plan.

I’ve imagined Abram’s faith walk, step by step. He was 75 years old when God first presented His plan of blessing his descendants. It was a quarter of a century later that Isaac, his promised offspring was born.

Abram did take some side steps, veering off the path. He was assisted by his wife, Sarai. You can read about them in Genesis 16. But he kept on, trying to remain faithful. He believed what God had told him, and the scriptures say God credited it to him as righteousness. (Genesis 15:6)

Now, I don’t have it all figured out. But I KNOW when God tells me to do a thing, and I know He expects me to do it. As I move in a little obedient step, He reveals more of His plan. Sometimes, it’s only the next step. But I’ve learned to worship along the way, expecting more and more of His revelation to come as I move forward and praise Him in each new moment of hearing from Him.

May I just give a word of encouragement?

Listen for God to speak regarding family, career, friends, church, ANY circumstance that unfolds before you. And if He tells you to DO something, obey quickly and wholeheartedly. Then praise Him that He gave you the fortitude to trust Him as your Father, as you obeyed Him as His child.

And in it all, WORSHIP! Get excited that you are part of God’s plan, and know that when you trust & obey He credits it to you as righteousness.

I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go; I will counsel you with my loving eye on you. (Psalm 32:8 NIV)

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Choose What's Healthy

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Recently our five year old Lily, along with her three year old sister Sadie, joined us for an overnighter while their parents attended a soccer game in Charlotte, NC. The 30 mile ride to our Kings Mountain home was quite eventful, because I was reminded in a huge way of the importance of teaching children early in life to make wise choices.

We were headed for a quick meal at Chick-fil-A before getting tucked in for the night. Discussing our food choices before we got there, Lily piped up;

I’m going to get WATER with my meal. I’m choosing to do what’s good for my body. Then she encouraged her younger sister to make the same healthy choice. Sadie was at first resistant, but then decided to go along with her sister’s plan drinking water instead of the coveted chocolate milk.

I was impressed as I listened from the front seat. First, really amazed at the deliberate choice that Lily made, and then pleased that Sadie decided to get onboard.

Of course, there are important lessons here for us BIG KIDS too!

Regarding HEALTHY Food Choices

Do you make an intentional effort everyday to choose foods that are packed full of vitamins and nutrients? You know – foods that will give you plenty of energy to accomplish all the things you need to get done?

Regarding HEALTHY Spiritual Food Choices

Do you make an intentional effort everyday to choose to fill your mind with Bread of Life things? You know – God things that will give you a positive outlook and replenish your hope as you face what’s ahead?

It’s so important that we intentionally make “good and healthy” choices each day – for Body, Soul, and Spirit!

So, whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God. (1 Corinthians 10:31)

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Be Still While God Fights!

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I’m convinced God really enjoys seeing us latch onto a new dealing strategy – especially when it’s straight from His Word.

Recently He brought two verses that had been in my memory files for a long time, alive in a new and powerful way for me.

I was attending a conference. Surrounded by women worshiping and seeking God, the enemy took the advantage of those moments to stir up my mind and emotions with distractions and negativity. I had no doubts about the supernatural fight that was taking place.

Our fight is not against human beings. It is against the rulers, the authorities and the powers of this dark world. It is against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly world. (Ephesians 6:12 NIRV)

As Believers it’s important to pay attention, knowing when the devil is attacking so we can quickly and deliberately stand our ground in the spiritual fray. For me, the process during those moments was to leave the crowd for a few minutes to deliberately and wholeheartedly focus on God, asking Him to do what only He could do. 

I hope I’ll never forget what happened next. I took a short walk and eventually propped against my car as I prayed over the attack in my mind. It was totally the counsel of the Holy Spirit calling me to focus my attention on the following verses, considering them in a holy tandem where God was AT THAT VERY MOMENT engaging in spiritual battle for me.

The LORD will fight for you; you need only to be still.  (Exodus 14:14)

Be still and know that I am God. (Psalm 46:10)

Now I’d called out both those verses many times in my past, with each event asking God to take over the fight – whether relational or circumstantial. But I’d never before considered them, or applied them to the spiritual warfare that goes on in my mind and emotions.

Yielding every thought of harassment from Satan to Jesus, the image became so vivid as I “saw Him” capturing and dissolving those fiery darts from the evil one – and all on my behalf!  All I was called to do was to . . . be still and know!

I rejoined that crowd of women with a new song in my heart and a different kind of battle cry in my arsenal. For as the days have stacked one upon the other since that event weeks ago, the practice of deferring to Jesus in every chaotic mindset has only gotten stronger.

Let’s Get Personal

1. When’s the last time you had critical thoughts you couldn’t seem to be able to let go of?

The LORD will fight for you - you need only to be still and know that He is God!

2. When’s the last time you were so distracted and couldn’t even pray?

The LORD will fight for you – you need only to be still and know that He is God!

3. When’s the last time you felt such agitation in your soul, making it difficult to focus on what was right before you?

The LORD will fight for you – you need only to be still and know that He is God!

4. When’s the last time you were filled with such worry that you couldn’t sleep?

The LORD will fight for you – you need only to be still and know that He is God!

Do you see this spiritual principle at work here? We have the conquering power of Jesus to lead us victoriously in each and every battle that takes place in our minds.

Simply . . . Be Still and Know!

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Free!

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I’d be quick to tell you I’d been forgiven of my sin – all of it. But in reality, through the years I’ve lived much of my life as a skeptic.

I’ve sung about the power in the Blood without comprehending its significance. I’ve intellectually accepted the fact of the forgiveness of my sins, but I’ve not mostly lived in freedom from the burden of sin. Seems I just couldn’t quite get in the flow of accepting His tremendous sacrifice for what it was – freedom and rest.

Even though I know that Jesus has penetrated straight into the mass of sin in my life, there are days I simply refuse to release sin’s grip over my soul. My emotions remain knotted and gnarled because I refuse to release them into the heart of God who has given His life so that I may live in the freedom of forgiveness, for which He paid so dearly.

Satan loves to torment God’s children. He’s drawing you into his trap if you continually allow yourself to dwell on and think about how badly you’ve messed up. He knows the truth, though – the truth that Jesus came not only to take away your sin, but to relieve you from the burden of it. If you want to walk victoriously with God, then you must accept the freedom that is yours through the removal of sin, along with the removal of the guilt that accompanies it.

But you can’t do it on your own. You’re not equipped. No amount of determination or self-will will make that happen. You can have victory, however, over the evil schemes of Satan. There’s absolutely no reason for a child of God to live under a cloud of guilt. It’s not scriptural to do so.

THE ENEMY HAS BEEN DEFEATED BY THE BLOOD OF JESUS!

You are living in New Covenant times. This Covenant is sealed with Christ’s own Blood. With the removal of sin, you’re free to talk to God and enjoy His presence. A lifestyle of joy,freed from harassment of sin and its accompanying guilt is yours through your relationship with Jesus, The Christ.

Freedom is yours – freedom from sin and from sin’s burden!

Christ has set us free for freedom. Therefore, stand firm and don’t submit to the bondage of slavery again.  (Galatians 5:1 CEB)

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